Therapy and Counselling

The clients I see, individuals and couples,  come from all walks of life, cultures, religions  ethnic backgrounds and sexual orientation. They vary in age: occasionally I see older teens or youth.  Most often I work with adults across the age range—from young adults to those in their elder years.

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The specific concerns and aspirations people bring are quite varied (see list just below).  At the core, for most people are suffering and a struggle  to find solutions.  People coming to see me might be experiencing difficult life transitions, losses, disappointments, or unproductive ways of thinking or behaving.   Most want to build and improve relationships; they seek to connect more deeply with intimate people in their lives and to communicate more effectively. Essentially they are seeking ways to live with greater ease, purpose, and vitality.

  • Anxiety and/or Panic
  • Depression
  • Life Transitions
  • Meditation methods and obstacles
  • Personal growth
  • Relationships
  • Self-Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Stress management
  • Trauma

leafrotated3Approaches

There is no formulaic approach to our work together; each of us is different: at a different phase in life, works at a different pace and responds to and wants or needs different approaches.  But, there are some core ways of being I strive to bring to all my clients which include authenticity, kindness and acceptance. Your strengths and resources are recognized and encouraged as we explore the hard places in a collaborative and open way, increasingly willing to move towards that which is painful and we have pushed away.  For me it is clear that participating in psychotherapy is a courageous act.  And, it is clear that you and I inhabit a shared humanity, aware that it is difficult to be human and that struggles and stress are part of our lives as we try to live the best, most meaningful lives we can.

Within those basic ways of relating, I draw on perspectives from experiential and emotionally-centered therapies, family systems thinking, as well as cognitive-behavioural therapy, particularly the cognitive therapies that incorporate “mindfulness” and compassion, especially Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.  My work is also shaped by my longstanding practice and study of meditation. My training and experience in the neurosciences helps inform my understanding of and approach for those individuals who would benefit from that perspective in their therapy, particularly those who have incurred brain injury.

An important part of our work is encouraging ”self-care” practices which means engaging in specific activities, from tiny to large, across a number of domains (exercise, nutrition, sleep, relationships, work, spirituality, etc.) that you define as important to you. Self-care practices also extend into our inner worlds in many ways.  For example, we may recognize when we are unduly self-critical and are able to bring a more caring or compassionate attitude towards ourselves.

  • Acceptance and Commitment
  • Cognitive-Behavioural
  • Compassion/Self-care
  • Existential-Humanistic
  • Family Systems/ Family of origin
  • Marital/Relationship
  • Mindfulness/Meditation
  • Relaxation procedures

Ultimately, a major direction in therapy for me is to encourage, to help mobilize a process in you through which you are able to “reframe” your experience, that is, view it and understand it from other perspectives. In so doing it becomes possible to become more aware of and less threatened and less compelled by longstanding patterns of thinking, feeling and acting that haven’t worked for your life. You become strengthened, less burdened, more willing to do things that are important to you. You become freer to choose to lead the life you want with love and courage.leafrotated3

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